Case Studies

stories of help provided by the Center for Multicultural Mediation

A Somali teenage girl and other youth participated in a “dine and dash.” With no prior arrest, she was referred to our diversion program. During one-on-one meetings with the girl and her mother, our staff discovered some larger family issues. The girl had repeatedly run away from her home. Her parents struggled with a response, especially her father. 

 

Recognizing it was critical that the father participate, our staff held the mediation session at their home. While initially agreeing, the father then backed out, but staff eventually convinced him to attend. Staff, as a Somali male, referenced cultural and religious values to make their case, explaining it was his duty because she was his blood. He could wish the problem away, but his daughter’s behaviors would only escalate. 

 

Staff explained to the father that he needed to accept and love his daughter and be involved in her life. The father cried, hugged his daughter and apologized. The girl paid restitution and completed community service hours. In our follow-ups, the family continues to do well, with the girl having no new offenses.

 

This story illustrates why a culturally specific program that includes a focus on family dynamics is desperately needed. A mainstream response may not have identified the root cause or worked effectively with the family, especially the father, without understanding this shared culture

 

As a result of our work with youth, CMM will achieve its long-term goal of reducing or eliminating cross-cultural and intergenerational conflict between African immigrants, refugees and their descendants and mainstream communities.

 

Our goal, as always, is to support youths’ success in schools, lay the foundation for future educational and employment self-sufficiency in the Somali population, and support community harmony and well-being. 

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A letter

From an African Youth Diversion client

The last 2 years have been a challenging period for my family. As my daughter turned 14 years old, she befriended girls form her school and started committing one crime after another. Slowly, she ran away from home, dropped out of school and become homeless. Letter after letter come in from police, schools, and courts with dire consequences. I feared for her life and at one point thought of moving to Africa to save my daughter and family since I could not stomach the idea of my daughter going to jail at the age of 14 years in America. As a single mother of 2 children, the problems my daughter was facing had a huge impact on my mental and emotional health and yet I could not fix the situation. I do not speak English and did not understand the criminal justice system. She had 5 cases against her and had gone missing. Finally, I gave up and said "let them take her away." 

"My hope came back when the Hennepin County Attorney's Office informed me that the court had decided to refer all 5 cases to CMM's African Youth Diversion Program. I was very happy since I already knew Abdi and trusted him. He was aware of my daughter's situation and I knew he would help us. Abdi has his heart and mind on helping low-income families like mine and he sees potential in our children even when parents, like me, have doubts.

"With time, he developed diversion contracts for all the cases while addressing the underlying causes of my daughter's behaviors. Abdi conducted family mediation for us and I was happy to receive my daughter back home. He enrolled her back into school and has met with her and the entire family on weekly basis. My daughter is doing well in school and would like to go to law school and become Attorney one day so that she can help others like she was help by Abdi".

- Hawa
Parent